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Peer Support Community

A private community by, and for, people living with thalassaemia and sickle cell across Aotearoa.

Why it matters

Sometimes you need to talk to someone who gets it

Your specialist understands the medicine. Your whānau loves you. But there's a particular kind of understanding that only comes from people who've lived it themselves.

Our peer support community is where you can talk about the things that don't fit anywhere else, the boring frustrations, the late-night fears, the small wins, the weird tips no doctor would tell you.

  • Closed and private, only people directly affected can join
  • Moderated by trained peer supporters with lived experience
  • Multilingual moderators across English, Hindi, Urdu, Samoan, Mandarin
  • Free, always, no commitments
How it works

Three ways to connect

Choose the format that fits your life, many people use all three.

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Private Online Community

Our closed Facebook group, a safe space to ask anything, vent, share resources, and celebrate small wins. Active 24/7 with members across NZ and globally.

Best for: daily connection, asking quick questions, finding people in similar situations.

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1-on-1 Peer Mentor

Matched with someone who lives with the same condition, and ideally at a similar life stage. Regular check-ins by phone, video, or in-person. Confidential, no pressure.

Best for: newly diagnosed whānau, anyone navigating a transition (school, work, pregnancy, life change).

Monthly Meet-ups

In-person gatherings in Auckland, Wellington, and Christchurch (with online for everyone else). Coffee, kai, conversation. No agenda, just connection.

Best for: meeting your community face-to-face, bringing whānau or partners along.

Who's welcome

Is this for me?

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People living with

Thalassaemia (any type) or sickle cell disease.

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Parents

Of children with thalassaemia or sickle cell, newborns through young adults.

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Partners

Of someone living with the condition, navigating the relationship and family planning.

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Carriers

Especially those who've just discovered their status and want to learn from the community.

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Whānau & siblings

Brothers, sisters, grandparents, aunties, anyone walking this with someone they love.

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Anywhere in NZ

From Kaitāia to Bluff, most of the community is online, so location doesn't matter.

Our values

What makes this community work

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Privacy first

What's shared here stays here. Members agree to confidentiality, we vet new joins carefully.

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No advice without consent

"Have you tried…?" is the opposite of helpful when someone's venting. We listen first, advise only when asked.

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All identities welcome

Any ethnicity, faith, gender, sexuality, this is a space for everyone. Racism, transphobia, and homophobia have no place here.

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No medical advice

We share experiences, not diagnoses. Your specialist is your specialist, we're your community.

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Show up imperfect

You don't have to be "strong" or "inspiring" here. You're allowed to be tired, cranky, scared, or fed-up.

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Lift each other

Small wins count. Celebrate each other. The community runs on mutual generosity.

From our community

What members say

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"I'd been managing on my own for 14 years. Joining the group, I realised how much I'd been carrying alone. Now I have people to message at 2am when the pain won't let me sleep."
Tia W. HbSS · Auckland
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"My peer mentor lives a totally different life from mine, different city, different age, different culture. But she gets it. When she says 'I know,' I actually believe her."
Sara M. Parent of Beta Major · Wellington
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"The monthly meet-ups in Christchurch are the highlight of my month. We don't even talk about the condition half the time. Just kai and laughs with people who don't need anything explained."
Ravi S. Beta Major · Christchurch

Join the community

Tell us a bit about you. We'll review and follow up within 3 working days. Your details stay private.

Thank you, your request is in. We'll follow up within 3 working days. 💜

You don't have to do this alone.

Whether you're newly diagnosed or 20 years in, you're welcome here.